Isn't it funny that there are so many romantic comedies/movies out there that make it seem that the general population is looking for this elusive thing called love. In reality, I think most people are just looking for a quick lay. I, personally, think that the institution of love is a sham. Sure, I believe in the concept and the feeling, but for the most part I think I don't have the ability to love someone. Maybe I'm jaded, or have been damaged somehow (I'm sure that's what all the men reading this is thinking right now...who fucked this chick up...). It's not that I'm not trying, or trying NOT to fall in love, maybe it's just not in the cards for me. Or I just need to be more patient.
ANYWAY, since my ex broke up with me I've been on a slew of dates. By slew I mean a shit ton. Good and bad, but nothing that stuck around. Here's what I've learned and encountered....
When guys say....they mean....
A) "I'm sort of a homebody, I like a good snuggle."
Read: "I would rather not spend too much money. It's also easier to lure her into my bed this way."
B) "Lets meet up at a coffee shop. I don't drink alcohol."
Read: "Coffee is WAY cheaper than alcohol."
*My disclaimer: I like drinking. I appreciate alcohol. I don't always drink myself into oblivion, but it's nice to wind down with alcohol. I've worked in multiple bars & restaurants, and people who don't drink are aliens to me. Also, I don't need to feel self conscious around ppl who don't drink.
C) "Let's watch a movie in my bedroom, so I won't bother my roommate (or the better one..."because my bed is so comfortable")"
Read: "I'm totally going to fuck her tonight. Half my work is already done!"
D) "You look great, that's a great dress/top on you?"
Read: "I've already checked out your rack...."
Read: "I've already checked out your rack...."
E) "You look stressed, let me give you a massage."
Read: "I am inches away from her boobs and steps from getting her naked." Or "Breaking the touch barrier, winning!"
Read: "I am inches away from her boobs and steps from getting her naked." Or "Breaking the touch barrier, winning!"
F) "I'm not ready for a relationship right now."
Read: "GUILT FREE SEX WITH ANYONE AND EVERYONE"
G) "We need to talk."
Read: You are getting dumped. 95% of the time this is true...
Read: You are getting dumped. 95% of the time this is true...